I did not want to feel any obligation to him. In the end, I picked a fight (about feminism) and stormed out of the restaurant-I even made sure I stopped and paid for everything I had eaten. I still can't put my finger exactly on why, he didn't sleaze on me, but I found myself wanting to get away from him. He was at least 20 years older than me, but I was in a new city and didn't know many people, so I went.Īt the restaurant, I became increasingly uneasy. He liked to hang around and talk to me about books, and one day he invited me to dinner. There was a man who came in a lot, a professor. When I was 17-18, I had a job at a university bookstore. If your nmom has escalated this fast and this maliciously, things aren't likely to quiet down. The other posters here are scared for you for a reason. One of the things that happens with ACONs is that our "Normal Meters" get broken and / or seriously skewed by decades of mistreatment by our NParents. Please take this escalation seriously and get your protections in place. You may also find this book useful The Gift of Fear. Given this incident, you would be wise to consider getting more protections for yourself in place. It would also be good to get a picture of your Nmom to the appropriate security folks at work so that they know the miscreant when they see her. Given that your boss has already had to report your Nmonster to the police, your boss will likely want to help you do that. It would be wise to change your schedule. As you said, you can't prove it was her, but is is pretty likely that it was. Please be sure to let your boss know about this right away. That is a very fast and nasty escalation - and one that could have put you in more danger of being attacked by someone else.
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